{"id":20,"date":"2011-03-20T10:51:00","date_gmt":"2011-03-20T10:51:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.wolfmaier.se\/wolfie217\/2011\/03\/20\/the-joy-of-becoming-a-father\/"},"modified":"2011-10-11T23:02:55","modified_gmt":"2011-10-11T21:02:55","slug":"the-joy-of-becoming-a-father","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.wolfmaier.se\/wolfie217\/2011\/03\/20\/the-joy-of-becoming-a-father\/","title":{"rendered":"The joy of becoming a father"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-GB\">Yesterday we had our first ultrasound. You know the kind of examination where one can see into a belly to see the child.<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-GB\">Somehow it\u2019s sinking in now.<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-GB\">I\u2019m becoming a father.<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-GB\">I am a father.<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-GB\">Am I ready to become a father?<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-GB\">It\u2019samazing. Things are changing already, but there will be more, I\u2019m well aware of that.<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-GB\">I can\u2019t imagine how things will be. I think they will be great. I think we\u2019ll be tired and stressed. I think we won\u2019t know what to do with our joy. I think we won\u2019t know what to do with our worries.<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-GB\">All I can see now is that since so many others have managed and brought up decent people, will do too.<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-GB\">Up until now it\u2019s been unreal. I have seen the changes of Susanna. I\u2019ve seen her belly grow. But still.<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-GB\">Now it\u2019s much more real. I saw the pictures. I saw it move. Saw it react when the belly was poked. There is a little life in there. My child! Our child!<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-GB\">Now what?<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-GB\">Preparations will go on. We kind of started even before we were married signing up for this apartment we live in. Still there are so many more things to prepare<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-GB\">Susanna isa real planer. I\u2019m more of a doer, without planning. Not that smart I guess when it comes to a kid. Now I have to listen to her smart and really precautions plans, while I\u2019m dreaming of a wall painted with figures by me inthe child\u2019s room. While I think of what kind of bike trailer would be the best.I\u2019m so glad I have her in this.<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-GB\">What next?<\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\"><a href=\"http:\/\/a3.l3-images.myspacecdn.com\/images02\/139\/6ff7077d0afd4a409c91d9c9d273952d\/l.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/a3.l3-images.myspacecdn.com\/images02\/139\/6ff7077d0afd4a409c91d9c9d273952d\/l.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"306\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div class=\"MsoNormal\"><span lang=\"EN-GB\">Here a picture of the child.<\/span><\/div>\n<div data-counters='true' data-style='square' data-size='small' data-url='https:\/\/blog.wolfmaier.se\/wolfie217\/2011\/03\/20\/the-joy-of-becoming-a-father\/' data-title='The joy of becoming a father' class='linksalpha_container linksalpha_app_3'><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='facebook' class='linksalpha_icon_facebook'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='twitter' class='linksalpha_icon_twitter'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='mail' class='linksalpha_icon_mail'><\/a><\/div><div data-position='' data-url='https:\/\/blog.wolfmaier.se\/wolfie217\/2011\/03\/20\/the-joy-of-becoming-a-father\/' data-title='The joy of becoming a father' class='linksalpha_container linksalpha_app_7'><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='facebook' class='linksalpha_icon_facebook'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='twitter' class='linksalpha_icon_twitter'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='googleplus' class='linksalpha_icon_googleplus'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='mail' class='linksalpha_icon_mail'><\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yesterday we had our first ultrasound. You know the kind of examination where one can see into a belly to see the child. Somehow it\u2019s sinking in now. I\u2019m becoming a father. I am a father. 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